This post as originally posted in July 2013 and has been updated.
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My new manager has really bad body odour. Even though he sits on a different floor from me, I still work pretty closely with him and I see him on a regular basis. When I do interact with him, the smell is so offensive that I want to turn my head away. I’m not exaggerating. It’s particularly excruciating when I’m sitting beside him at a meeting — all I can think about is his smell and I can barely focus on what’s going on! I’m a new employee and really want to do a good job, but I find it difficult to be around him when all I can think about is escaping his smell. I’m afraid to approach him about it because he might take offense — and I don’t want to piss off my new manager. Plus, this could be a medical issue, so I wouldn’t want to bring up a sensitive topic. What should I do?