Woman on top Before intercourse, ask your partner to stimulate you orally or manually. Once you're feeling highly aroused, move on to intercourse with you on top controlling the pace and the motion. In this position, you will easily be able to maintain close clitoral contact with him and rock back and forth to achieve the sensations that turn you on.
The spoon position While lying on your side, your partner enters you from behind. Drape your upper leg over his upper leg and—with either your hand or his—stimulate your clitoris. Use a water-based lubricant on your hands because the natural lubrication on your delicate genital tissue will evaporate once it's exposed to the air. Extra lubrication allows for smooth motion.
Doggy style Many women favour this position, with the woman kneeling and the man entering from behind, because it results in strong firm stroking of the inside of the vaginal wall, where the G-spot is. You or your partner can also stimulate your clitoris manually in this position.
Small hand-held vibrator Sit in your partner's lap, with both of you upright and your chests facing each other. Place pillows under your legs and buttocks and, while having intercourse, use the vibrator to stimulate your clitoris.
Large wand-style vibrator Sit in your partner's lap and make love with both of you leaning back on your elbows. Have your partner stimulate your clitoris with the vibrator. Some couples enjoy this position blindfolded. If you try this position, you'll need to guide your partner and tell him what kind of stimulation is best.
Small bullet-style vibrator This style of vibrator is held in place with a soft stretchy ring that fits around the base of your partner's penis. Once he penetrates you, the bullet vibrator is in the ideal place for clitoral stimulation. Powered with a separate hand-held remote control, either you or your partner can adjust the vibration intensity to suit your preference as you go along. Men are often quite keen on this job—after all, we all know how much guys love being in charge of the remote control!
Certified sex educator Lou Paget is author of 365 Days of Sensational Sex (Doubleday Canada).
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