Inspiring messages about loving your curves abound on social media these days, and Assa Cisse, Tess Holliday, and Nadia Aboulhosn are just a few of the women who have made space for plus-size women in the fashion world. We can thank the body positivity movement, which is focused on self-love and celebrating your shape, for a part of that shift — and for helping drive a much-needed conversation on how women’s bodies are scrutinized in the age of social media.
But while there’s lots to like about body positivity, it’s not perfect. There isn’t always a lot of room to express more complicated feelings about looks and confidence (it’s not always easy to go from self-loathing to self-loving in an instant). And the movement itself has been criticized for not being inclusive — some argue that white, able-bodied women tend to be given the spotlight, while women of colour, women with disabilities, queer women, trans women and gender non-binary folks tend to be left out of the conversation.
Clearly, there’s a lot of work to do when it comes to highlighting different narratives about body image. But luckily, there are several standout authors who are tackling this complex topic. Some of these reads have been around for a while, while others are recent and ground-breaking (such as Roxane Gay’s Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body). And while these writers might not necessarily agree with each other on every single point, debate kind of comes with the territory: the way we see ourselves is a tricky subject, but necessary to explore.
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I Feel Bad About My Neck: And Other Thoughts On Being a Woman by Nora Ephron
Nora Ephron’s 1972 Esquire essay, “A Few Words About Breasts,” arguably changed the way women talked, if not thought, about their bodies. This collection of essays, now a decade old, introduced a new generation of readers to Ephron’s work, and is loaded with her signature mix of candor and advice — from musings on how purses do nothing but ruin your shoulders to warning that, “Anything you think is wrong with your body at the age of thirty-five you will be nostalgic for at the age of forty-five.”