Inspiring messages about loving your curves abound on social media these days, and Assa Cisse, Tess Holliday, and Nadia Aboulhosn are just a few of the women who have made space for plus-size women in the fashion world. We can thank the body positivity movement, which is focused on self-love and celebrating your shape, for a part of that shift — and for helping drive a much-needed conversation on how women’s bodies are scrutinized in the age of social media.
Clearly, there’s a lot of work to do when it comes to highlighting different narratives about body image. But luckily, there are several standout authors who are tackling this complex topic. Some of these reads have been around for a while, while others are recent and ground-breaking (such as Roxane Gay’s Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body). And while these writers might not necessarily agree with each other on every single point, debate kind of comes with the territory: the way we see ourselves is a tricky subject, but necessary to explore.
Hunger: A Memoir of (My) BodybyRoxane Gay Roxane Gay’s latest book, Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body, is a powerful meditation on being a woman of size. In Gay’s words, her story is “not a success story,” but “simply, a true story,” — and she doesn’t hold back in the telling, from revealing the trauma that triggered her weight gain (she was raped at age 12 by a group of boys from her school) to detailing an adulthood spent grappling with irreconcilable desires: to fit in this world and to accept herself as she is. It’s rare to read such a raw depiction of a woman’s relationship with food. She’s blunt about wanting to be seen and desired. But she’s also honest about using food to hide herself, writing, “I ate and ate and ate in the hopes that if I made myself big, my body would be safe.”